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SNL and Josh Brolin Demonstrates Why Violence Against Women is a Laughing Matter
I want to preface by stating this is not a ‘hate’ or ‘clout chasing’ piece. This is genuine commentary/observation of a ‘wrong’, and this blog exists to shine a spotlight on that ‘wrong’ ‘so that ‘the powers that be’ will take the opportunity to ‘do better’, or not, in the context of showing ‘violence against women’ in their comedy skits, and hopefully/maybe, they will make a responsible, decision, to omit such reckless/irresponsible depictions moving forward. When it comes to abuse, one of the first steps the abuser takes, to make himself (or herself, in a few cases) feel better about treating a woman poorly is to strip her of her…
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Why Women Make Better Life Coaches Than Men
I made a post asking why a MAN would commit to professional life coaching. This was the exchange between us: So, this was an exchange with an xy chromosome on an online forum. He first started by answering my post title question stating that ‘Life Coaching is a scam: Unless they give away their advice through youtube videos, I can’t see life coaches as anything but scam artists. They’re not as bad as psychiatrists tho I recall replying something to the effect of: all industries have scammers. The reason why Life Coaching has a ‘bad rap’ is that in the 90s there was a huge mainstream Life Coaching scam, were…
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Hitting A Child is Child Abuse
If think the above meme is ‘funny’ then YOU are part of the problem. Hitting a child is never ok, in any context. When an adult hits a child, under the guise of ‘so called’ discipline (it’s really, NOT), it sends that child a clear message that; you don’t love him or her (love isn’t abusive), that you equate solving a problem with violence and that you don’t respect that child (hence why most children don’t respect adults/authority figures, when they become teenagers). ‘I was spanked as a child – and I turned out fine’, you may say. Really? Are you really mentally, psychologically and emotionally ‘fine’, right now? It…
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That Boy is Rotten and It’s All Mom’s Fault
If lil boys have to ‘see a man, to be a man’ 🤔that explains why (MOST, not all) lil boys are hoodlums and grow to woman-hate and be a dead beats – like father like son. It NEVER had ANYTHING to do with what mama did, or didn’t do. The baby batter donator left, and mama is the parent that stayed (for the most part). As long as mama put in a good effort to raise the child and was non-abusive to the child, she is to be commended, for staying with the child, regardless of what the child turns out to be/do.👉🏾💯 I can help you show up for…
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CERTAIN Men Matter
You know, despite me blah blah blah-ing, from dusk til dawn, about men this and men that, I actually like men as human beings and know they have a purpose on Earth. However, let me be clear, I only like a certain type of ‘men’. What type? The type who; are proactively putting in the work to develop themselves, who genuinely respect women, who is loyal to one woman (and have never been an adulterer, and no plans to), who take accountability for his own actions, who denounces this patriarchal system, who has emotional intelligence, who protects women and children, who’s an active father, who doesn’t not spread his semen…
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MEN Created The Problems of the World
(this is going to be a long read, prepare yourself – my applogise about the typos and gramtical errors on my part). So, rather than me typing my own thoughts, I thought I’d treat you to a ‘real life’, authentic exchange between myself and an xy chromosome, for ‘his’ social media post (no from any of the mainstream ones you know – an-ebony-centered-social-meida-platform). It’s a good glimse into the mind of a male, and what he thinks of the problems of this world. Our exchange start out from an ebony (a.k.a ‘black’) perspective, or which mine clearly always stuck to my ‘ebony woman’ persoective, then it transformed into all men…
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Ladies, Learn To Spot The Red Flags
Since men are the ones who have the capability of imposing sexual or physical violence towards a girl/woman, and not the other way around, for the most part, it’s women who have to ‘spot the red flags’ in a man, at ‘all stages’ of her affiliation with him. Whether he saw her in public for the first time, they just started dating or you’re both years into marriage, a woman must never let her ‘red flag spotting’ radar’ go on ‘sleep mode’ or shut down – not even for a minute. Her very life, safety and mental well-being depends on her ability to easily/quickly ‘spot the red flags’. Even worse,…
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Are You a Man or a Clown?
Short answer – yes, you are a clown, not a man, if you can’t handle rejection from a woman, maturely and respectfully. So you got rejected by woman – big deal. You aren’t the first man in the world to be rejected, in this context, and you won’t be the last. In fact, you will be rejected by a woman, or many women, in various contexts, in subtle and not so subtle ways, many times in you lifetime. Get used to it. To say most men don’t take/handle rejection, well, from the woman, they’re interesred in, is the understatement of the melenia. It’s that ego-bruised, I-must-have-her-at-all-cost, how-dear-her, patriarchal mentality that…
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Broke Men
I won’t be broke-shaming, nor will I be sugar-coating either. Men, your only value, that you bring to the table is income, assets and resources. She has value and worth by default, because she has the womb you lack (so her income doesn’t matter, for the most part). Hey, I didn’t make the rules in this patriarchal society – it’s been like that centuries before anyone reading this was birth here, by their mama. In a society made/ran by men, men should have the upper-hand when it comes to high income. So why do you want to enter her life a financially destitute man? If she’s worth something – then…
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Intro To Intromance
Hi there. Welcome to Intromance, the social media full spectrum platform for men – though women are more than welcome to be in this space, as well. ‘Full spectrum’ because this brand consists of this website/blog, a podcast (on it’s way), and equally important, a Life Guidance service were you can speak with me, Sonia, a Certified Life Coach, one-on-one, privately/confidentially; on webchat or on the phone, exclusively (per minute charge applies. Click here to get started). Here, you’re find images that consists of cartoons, memes, screenshots and other A.I.-generated, royalty-free, images, to enhance the esthetics, and contemporary looks of this website. More essentially, the content of this website will…
